TRUE LOVE IS HAPPINESS

TRUE LOVE IS HAPPINESS

WHEN YOU FALL IN LOVE YOU DO NOT REALISE INSTANTLY.  THERE IS A SLIGHT CHAIN OF THOUGHT WHICH KEEPS COMING IN YOUR MIND THAT, IS IT JUST INFACTUATION OR LOVE?. EVERY ONE GOES THROUGH THIS PHASE WHERE THERE IS A CONFLICT IN MIND , WETHER SHE/HE IS A PERFECT MATCH OR IS IT LOVE?,OR THE CONVENTIONAL LAW “WE ARE JUST FRIENDS”.

WHEN I MET MY DREAM GIRL, SHE GAVE ME POSITVE VIBES FROM THE MOMENT I FIRST MET HER.PLEASANTLY SMILING WITH PLEASING PERSONALITY & AURA  ATTRACTED ME INSTANTLY. I NEVER BELIEVED THAT TRUE LOVE EXISTS,BUT MONA GAVE A DIFFERENT PERSPECTIVE. OF COURSE,LOVE DID NOT HAPPEN SUDDENLY, BUT IT IS ACTUALLY NOT A ROCKET SCIENCE  EITHER AND BEST PART IS, THAT YOU DO NOT REALISE IT FOR QUITE LONG.GRADUALLY,PHONE CALLS,MEETINGS,SILLY DISCUSSIONS,DEBATES,SHARING OF THOUGHTS BECAME PART OF THE PHASE. I STARTED TO REALIZE THAT IF THERE IS SOMEONE WHO CARES FOR YOU,WANTS TO KNOW WETHER YOUR DAY WAS GOOD OR BAD, WHO BRINGS SMILE IN YOUR FACE, SHE IS THE ONE. OFCOURSE, FAMILY MEMEBERS ARE ALWAYS THERE FOR YOU,BUT HERE I CAME ACROSS A PAL WHOSE SWEET VOICE GAVE ME A COMPLETE ASSURANCE THAT,TENSION/WORRIES CAN TAKE A BACKSEAT .

WE KEEP FINDING TRUE LOVE/HAPPINESS EVERY WHERE AND DO NOT REALSIE,THERE ARE SOME PEOPLE  AROUND YOU, WHO CARE FOR YOU SO MUCH AND WE TEND TO NOT TO GIVE THEM VALUE.EVERYONE THINKS THAT SPECIAL ONE WOULD DROP BY SKY OR DRAMATIC ENTRY WOULD GIVE THEM  A TINKLE AND SHE WOULD BE YOURS. NOTHING HAPPENS LIKE THIS,WAKE UP..:)

WHEN I MET MONA AND SUBSEQUENTLY GOT TO KNOW HER MORE; SHE WAS NOT ONLY PATIENT BUT ALSO VERY CHARISMATIC. HER SWEET VOICE, ELECTRIFYING SMILE AND AFFECTION IS BEYOND WORDS.LUCKILY FOR ME, I HAPPENED TO FINALLY REALIZE THAT, THERE IS NO COMPLICATIIONS IN TRUE LOVE. ITS SIMPLE,WHEN IT HAS TO HAPPEN, IT JUST HAPPENS, & INDEED IT HAPPENED.SOMETIMES YOU DO NOT REALIZE THAT THE PERSON WHOM YOU REALLY LIKE INTERACTING,CARES FOR YOU;CAN BE  YOUR GOOD FRIEND/CONFIDANT BUT THERE CAN ALSO BE A POSSIBILITY THAT SHE CAN BE YOUR DREAM GIRL.THE CATCH IS, WETHER YOU HAVE AN EYESIGHT TO VISUALISE THIS OR LET HER GO.

TRUE LOVE GIVES YOU IMMENSE HAPPINESS AND TRUST ME, NO MATERIALISTIC POSSESION CAN BRING YOU JOY AS COMPARED TO HER LOVE, IN MY CASE MONA..:).NEVER TAKE LOVE FOR GRANTED,IF YOU HAVE EGO PLEASE SHOW IN YOUR WORK AND CRACK EVERY PROBLEM WITH HEAD HORNS BUT FOR GOD SAKE DO NOT MAKE HER CRY. I AM LUCKY MONA HAS A LARGE HEART AND LET MY FAULTS GO UN NOTICED,BUT THAT MAKES ME REALIZE, IT IS SO EASY TO FIGHT AND CREATE UNPLEASANTNESS IN A RELATION,BUT SO DIFFICULT TO MAINTAIN EACH STRING OF LOVE.MONA DOES IT SUPERBLY,AND THAT COMPELS ME TO CONDUCT MYSELF IN APPROPRIATE MANNER.SHE HAS THE ABILITY TO STOP AN ARGUMENT,BECAUSE SHE SWEETLY SAYS “NEVER ARGUE TO WIN OVER YOUR LOVED ONES”.

I REALISED THAT IT IS BETTER TO LOOSE AN ARGUMENT WITH YOUR LOVED ONE AND TRY TO APLOLGISE IMMEDIATELY IF YOU ARE WRONG OR EVEN RIGHT.THERE ARE THESE SMALL GESTURES WHICH MAKES YOU STRONGER AND GET YOU TRUE HAPPINESS,RATHER THAN GIVING YOU PSEUDO JOY OF WINNING AN ARGUMENT WITH YOUR LOVED ONE.

MONEY CAN NOT BUY HAPPINESS.TRUE LOVE IS SOMETIMES A BLESSING WHICH KEEPS MAKING YOU STRONGER AND FACE ODDS WITH GRIT.NEVER LET YOUR LOVED ONES GO AWAY FROM YOU,THEY ARE TRUE COMPANION.IF YOUR SWEETHEART LOVES YOU, LOVE HER MORE.I AM TRYING MY BEST AND LEARNING EVERY DAY AND HAPPY THAT LOVE FINALLY HAPPENED :) :)

I AM LUCKY TO HAVE A SWEET PERSON LIKE MONA, WHO COMPLETELY UNDERSTANDS ME AND LOVES ME MORE THAN PERHAPS, I DO. HER PRESENCE IN LIFE IS A BIG MOTIVATING FACTOR AND ATLEAST NOW I KNOW TRUE HAPPINESS IS JUST LOVE AND NOT MONEY.