friends r jewels

Folks im bak but really caught up with work so could not write regularly..I realized that life is very simple nd u really do not have to  work hard to get happiness.Its all out there,but u need to be positive about life and know this fact that there would always be a ray of hope in case everything seems hopeless.Friends are such set of human beings which thankfully got created, that help u without any selfish motive.Ofcourse jealousy,hatred,disappointment,taking some one for granted are few traits which tarnish any relation, but guess these all r human traits and no one is superhuman being.So, please grant a special relaxation to the faults your sweet friends do it,its just because of the above mentioned traits that they end up hurting you.As a person you should realize this and try to rationalise the motive of a changed behaviour, when you give time and patience to any friend,trust me; no relative but these pals would end up being your best JEWELS OF LIFE. Please remember one thing ; if you ever are in a postion to help, do not think so much just help him/her, it would give you internal peace and happiness of just being closer in becoming a good human being.I know its a difficult thing to do, that those who care for you, only they are entitled for your good behavior, but trust me go out there and be humble enough to every person you know, you would realize sooner or later they would realize your greatness.By doing this simple act you do not loose any million of dollars and certainly not your self respect,but what you do get in bargain is their good trust and emotional back up which sometimes you need it.Life is short, live the way you want to live,but its always good that when you go, people still remember you for your good nature and work. Pals pick up that damn phone or mail to your old pals whom you are not in touch, or whom you liked but could not even tell him/her, trust me you would feel good. By doing so you are just making an attempt to live life fully. Those who could not respond; pals chuck it, no issues,just enjoy life as it is.Please do not indulge in superficially boosting your ego by saying :
a) Oh He/she did not call  me,why should I
b) He/she never helped me, why should I 
c) He/she likes someone else, i would not talk to him/her for life now :) very common
d) He/she does not want to remain in touch, why should i waste my time
Dudes! by liking someone and respecting,showing concern  to some one and unfortunately not getting the same treatment in return does not mean you should feel bad and sulk and just think your ego has been hurt, balls!!! Life is simple and it is not at all a big deal if people do not act the way you want them to..simple and sweet..gotchit.Ya last but not the least bring that good kick ass ego in you whenever you fail in any work, or in exam or in any walk of life but please please certainly not in the instituition of  FRIENDS WHO ARE INDEED TRUE JEWELS OF LIFE

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